In this post I will be speaking about how to teach your child to read. In particular, the more complicated grammatical rules of the English language.
A little bit of background information
I am an Autistic mother.
I have 2 children. One of whom is also Autistic.
And one of whom is not.
I use these techniques to teach each of my children how to read.
It is also the same technique that my sister used to teach her children how to read.
So this technique is tried and tested and works really well.
This method of teaching any child how to read, whether your child is Autistic or not will most likely have the most success.
Why you shouldn’t wait for school
I am a firm believer in teaching children at home.
But I am also a firm believer in making sure that children have plenty of social play.
Unfortunately, the best form of social play in my environment is through school.
So my children are attending school and kindergarten.
However.
I will still be part time homeschooling my children.
There will be things that the schools will teach my children at a later stage.
However, I have seen a lot of interest, in particular from my Autistic child in reading.
This of course led to start teaching my child how to read a little earlier than school would.
Which is fine!
If you want to do a little more research other than this post and my previous post for Level 1.
Now to get started.
Once your child has got the hang of the basic alphabet and how to read it.
As well as their phonics.
And your child can read basic words.
Especially 3 or 4 letter words.
Then this is the next step for you!

It is time to teach your child digraphs.
In simpler terms, a digraph is 2 letters of the alphabet, that when you put together, make one sound.
I have to say that when I taught my child to read, I included the double letters in their Level 1 lesson.
This is because, I think it is easy for a child to learn that when 2 of the same letters of the alphabet come together, they sound the same still.
Of course these also come with exceptions such as the word ‘moon’, which will be read as ‘Moun’.
As opposed to the word ‘poor’ where the ‘o’ sounds exactly the same. No matter if it is spelt with a double letter ‘o’ or a single letter ‘o’.
But all languages have their exceptions and so those will come later.
Each time you come across a word with 2 of the same letters from the alphabet, you can point it out and say it out for your child.
That way, they can also understand the exceptions and learn to memorise them.
Vowel Digraphs:
Vowel Digraphs and some examples include:
- ai/ay
As in Rain or Paint.
Or
Play or Say
- au/aw
As in Automatic or Awesome
- ea/ee,
Such as Plea or See
- er,
For example, Perfect or Her or Person
- ow/oe
As in, Know or Snow
And
Toe or Goes
- ue/oo,
Due or Cue or Tuesday
Moon or Soon
- oy/oi
Examples of this are: Oil and Oyster
- ui
Like in Fruits or Bruises
- oa
For example, Float or Toad
- ea
An example of this is, Lead or Read
- ey
As in They or Prey
Consonant Digraphs:
These are slightly different than their vowel counterparts.
A consonant digraph is when you see a word which includes 2 consonants (sometimes more), usually at the beginning of the word.
And when those two consonants combine, make a single phoneme.
A phoneme is basically how a word sounds.
Not how it is literally meant to be read out, in the form of the alphabet letters.
For example, when you combine g and n, to form the ‘gn’ sound, that sound becomes the letter ‘n’ and the ‘g’ becomes silent.
‘Gnome’, ‘knee’, ‘kneel’ are some examples of this.
Consonant digraphs include:
-
ch, (Sounds like a K)
Usually ‘ch’ turns into a K when it is in the beginning of the word or in the middle.
Not at the end of the word.
Examples of this include:
Chemise
or
Chemistry
-
dj,
Whenever you see any word with these two letters placed together, the ‘d’ becomes silent.
Adjective
or
Adjust
-
gh,
These two letter, when put together only make a hard ‘g’ sound if it is at the start of a word.
Otherwise, usually ‘gh’ gets read out with the ‘f’ sound.
Or it is silent and not read out at all.
The hard ‘G’ sound examples:
Ghetto
or
Spaghetti
The ‘f’ sound examples usually are only pronounced this way if it comes after the ‘ou’ vowels:
Tough
or
Rough
Unpronounced ‘gh’
-
ng,
You will only always see this at the end of a word.
And usually only after a vowel letter.
There are many examples of this such as:
Sting
or
Bring
-
ph,
The combination of these two consonant letter produce the sound ‘f’.
Examples of this include:
Physics
or
Phonics
or
Phones etc.
Haphazard
Loophole
-
sh,
Shoulder
Shiny
Shoes
or
Ashen
-
ss,
I know above I mentioned that I taught my child the double letter sounds, in with, when I taught them the phonics of letters.
However, when there is a double appearance of ‘s’, it can change a little bit.
The ‘ss’ digraph tends to follow the same rule as the ‘sh’ digraph.
However, you will never find a double ‘s’ at the beginning of a word.
You will only find this in the middle of the word.
If the double ‘s’ is followeds by ion, ue or ure in a word, then it will change its pronounciation from being a simple ‘s’ sound to the ‘sh’ sound.
Examples include:
Sure
or
Issue
or
Emission
etc
-
th,
Bath
-
wh
Anytime, you see the ‘w’ leter combined with the ‘h’ letter, then the ‘h’ becomes silent.
It becomes only the ‘w’ which is pronounced.
The infamous ‘wh’ digraphs include
Who
What
Where
When
Why
Disclaimer
These things take time to learn so be patient with your child when you embark on this journey in trying to teach them the digraph grammar rules.
Also, take it one digraph at a time if you want.
And I wish you the best 🙂
Enjoy

